Thursday, 2 October 2014

Don’t Blink

Amazing is the magnificence of our town’s very large numbers of self-educated drivers who enthusiastically demonstrate their free spirited nature, mistaking our rough terrain roads for Khyalami.  The use of indicators are seemingly only necessary when traffic officers are spotted in the distance.  And you dare not blink whilst driving as you could open your eyes to complete change in scenery as many of these brilliant drivers have a growing love for abstract metal art. 
Thinking along these lines forced me to retreat into my Bohemian bubble of deep thought and see the relevance of this scene in my own life.  I realised (with horror) that along the rough terrain of my life journey, I have often changed the route direction on many occasions (to many to mention due to pure embarrassment) without indicating, leaving behind other life journey terrain users wondering what had happened to me and where I had veered off to.  Now, whilst I’ve made this decision and embarked along the detoured route, in the process leaving important happenings, opportunities, people and dreams behind, I made the big mistake of blinking.  When I opened my eyes again (they were only closed for a second), years had passed, people had disappeared, dreams had expired, priorities had changed and opportunities had been missed.  If I had followed the coordinated route planned for my life journey and stuck to it, I might have been a ’bonafied’ rocket scientist today, not just the self-proclaimed one I am. Maybe if I had indicated instead for just swerving into the new lane paved with sparkles and glitter (which could actually have been tin foil and shards of glass), someone who knew better (a real rock scientist) could have stopped me and at least have warned me of the dangers of travelling alone.
I would still have continued on that route but at least someone would know where I am and keep watch from a distance while I explore the adventures of curiosity and stubbornness.  The point is this, you are where and when you are in life because that’s where you are meant to be at the right time just don’t veer off without indicating.  And be careful of the adventure trail you chose because initially it may be so adventurous that you lose time and by the time you do open your eyes, finding your way back to the coordinated path might be harder than expected. Only veer off if you are fully prepared to learn the lessons which you will be taught along this road. I don’t regret taking the adventure trail at all, I value each lesson learnt along the way and cherish each memory.   I regret losing everything I gave up (without even realising I did) and all for just that, an adventure. So remember, indicators are not just for vehicles and blinking is a time machine!
Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)

Bohemian B

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