Saturday, 27 September 2014

Bohemian B’s Beat
Colour me fabulous
I discovered something so majestic in beauty that I was left in a state of awe recently as I was surfing along my much loved companion, namely social media.  I discovered a wonder of nature which some of you may be familiar with, however this was a first for me, therefore I am obliged to share (sharing is caring after all)
  “Fire Rainbows”.....well....I love beautiful images and the wonders of nature enthrall me with its beauty time and time again. I do love rainbows and I do love fire.  I had to find out more about these Fire Rainbows as I was completely intrigued! So I asked my very knowledgeable and good friend, Google for an explanation and this is what the genius had to say, “Fire Rainbows are neither fire, nor rainbows, but are so called because of their brilliant pastel colours and flame like appearance.  Technically they are known as circumhorizontal arc - an ice halo formed by hexagonal, plate-shaped ice crystals in high level cirrus clouds.  The halo is so large that the arc appears parallel to the horizon, hence the name. Brightly coloured circumhorizontal arcs occur mostly during the summer and between particular latitudes. When the sun is very high in the sky, sunlight entering flat, hexagon shaped ice crystals get split into individual colours just like in a prism”.  Of course genius Google had much more to say on the subject, but I won’t spoil your fun, I know you enjoy Mr Google-ishious just as much as I do, so you can have a chat with him yourself.  Anyway, as per usual, this got my many minds thinking many things that represent this colourful and fiery wonder.    Colour....Bohemians love colour. The more the merrier.  Brighter is better.  Colour also has much significance and reflects one’s mood.  (Once again, information from Google, except this time on the subject of colour therapy.)  And this is where my trail of thought ventures deeper......
   Have you ever heard the saying, ‘don’t lose the moon whilst counting the stars’? Or ‘don’t throw away a diamond while picking up pebbles’?  Well here’s another one for you, (a-la Bohemian B), “don’t miss the colours of the rainbow while chasing the pot of gold at the end”.  We are always so fixated on something else, some form of distraction which in turn has the ability to steer us away from what is beautiful in life, the rainbow for instance.  When we forget to take a minute to ‘smell the roses’ or take in the beauty of the rainbow, because we are too busy chasing that something better, ‘funner’, easier, prettier, we may one day, wake up to the rude awakening  that we have not only lost the colours, but also the fire.  That fire that burns within, our passion.   
  “The conditions required to form a “fire rainbow” is very precise – the sun has to be at an elevation of 58° or greater, there must be high altitude cirrus clouds with plate-shaped ice crystals, and sunlight has to enter the ice crystals at a specific angle. This is why circumhorizontal arc is such a rare phenomenon.”- We are like that I presume, our conditions have to be miraculously perfect for our inner fire to burn, for our radiance to shine. Perhaps if we rather focus on our own inner fire and radiance, our conditions in life could be easier to tolerate and perhaps a bit more manageable. We’d be so consumed with life splendour and our inner beauty and fire would keep us motivated and passionate, that the incredible hardships and disappointments in life would not be all consuming and devastating (even the really ouchy ones) because we would know our own strengths and recognise our beauty and be satisfied in who we are as individuals.
   “Circumhorizon arcs are often seen between lower obscuring clouds”.  This sentence inspired me; it is at our lowest point that we should excrete radiance.  It should be at this low point that we should allow our inner fire to burn the hottest. That to me represents inner strength, a devoted character and true beauty.
I also realized that colour really can lift ones mood and after exploring the benefits of colour therapy  was amazed at what certain colours not only signify, but also how they can lift your spirits and motivate and encourage a happier, more vibrant and self confident you.  It’s time for me to break away from the bleak colours of my winter demeanor and instead, introduce my ‘me-ness to a summery feel good mood. 
   So colour me fabulous! No more chasing pots of gold and picking up pebbles, it’s time to get that inner fire ignited again to blend with the colour of me.  I think I’ll start off with red, which signifies vibrancy and fullness of life. Red also signifies love, passion, excitement, energy and intensity. Red is the colour of fire. (And those who know me know of my fascination with fire......).   So go on then.......try on a colour and be radiantly you!

Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)
Bohemian B





Friday, 19 September 2014

Bohemian B’s Beat
With eyes wide shut......

 I’ve often heard so many people, including or perhaps especially myself, saying they want to mean something to the world, to be remembered, to leave a significant mark.  Everybody wants to make a difference.  Everybody wants to leave some sort of legacy........alright, maybe not everybody, but most certainly all of my ‘me’s’......this has been my ‘unicorn’ that I have chased after for many, many years. 
   We all have fears (although I deny this as much as possible as I want/need to come across as a ‘tough-cookie’, fearless beyond reason......why? [shrugs shoulders and shakes head in absolute confusion] honestly, I have no idea.....) But I think, this past weekend I just realised my biggest fear, the fear of being obsolete. Athazagoraphobia- ‘a fear of being forgotten’.  (http://www.symptoms-of-anxiety-depression.com/athazagoraphobia-fear-of-being-forgotten.html and http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/athazagoraphobia)Athazagoraphobia.  Athazagoraphobia is basically the fear of being forgotten, ignored or abandoned. However, when I saw the enormity of this word, I realized that I cannot possibly have a phobia with a name bigger than the problem! Although, generally speaking, people who suffer from this phobia understand that it is not life-threatening, but often cannot control their feelings. Why are people afraid to be forgotten? Apparently, according to the above mentioned sites, the fear of being forgotten is something totally natural (uhem....normal? ok, obviously not a fear applicable to my selves and I then) because everyone wants to feel important and appreciated by their loved ones.  (And here’s the duzzi of awakenings.....) Loved ones, now you see this is exactly it, so often we are trying insanely hard to leave an impression for THE world that we forget OUR world.   I very recently watched a deeply touching movie, “Tasting the stars”, which immediately stopped my ‘phobia inclined thought patterns’ in their tracks.   As I mentioned, I’ve been chasing the ideal of ‘never being forgotten’ by the world, that I never for one moment realised that I won’t ever be forgotten, by MY world, the ones who are closest to me. The friends and family, who love me, and how I insult them, daily, by creating the impression that they are not important enough to me, that I continually have to chase down, run after, over compensate  and, ....well just to ‘be remembered’.   It should be enough, no, rather it should be all that matters, that I will always be loved, accepted and remembered by them, always.   You want to leave an imprint on the world? Start with your world.  We are so busy chasing ‘something’ that we forget the ‘someone’s’ in our life.  Now this does not for one second mean stop doing ‘good’ for ‘THE’ and ‘YOUR’ world though.  Another interesting conversation I came across is that the worst regret we have in life, is not for the wrong things we did, but rather for the thousands of right things we did for the wrong people. The following response made a universe of sense to me, the response was, “I agree and disagree. The fact that I helped someone who did not deserve it only takes something away from them - not me.  As long as I don't keep helping them after I have realised my error.  I give because I have ‘good’ in me and that's all we need to remember.  I can't own others behaviour - only my own”.  This ties in perfectly with my earlier epiphany.  When we realise our acceptance with the ones who choose to be by our side (whether it be by blood or by choice) and continually endeavour to positively infect our world, we will, with self-confidence and self-esteem, overcome fearful insecurities and as we reach out to those who accept us for who we are, we will inevitably be extending a kindness to the world. The best service you can do to yourself and to others is to live with eyes wide open opposed to wide shut.  Noticing the people who will accept, love and remember you always, not only for the good you possess in your heart, but purely for just being you.
   Don’t stop being a good person and doing good deeds and certainly make sure that you keep your good intentions (even if they are mocked or criticised) but don’t lose sight of yourself  for one, nor the ones closest to you, who continually love you.  Don’t lose sight of the rainbow’s beauty as you chase after the pot of gold.

Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)

Bohemian B

Friday, 12 September 2014

Hug a tree day

When you go out into the woods and you take a look at the trees, you will be amazed to see how many different trees there are.  Some are bent, some are straight, and some may be evergreen while others are... whatever, the point is, they are all trees.  You look at the different trees and just accept them for what they are - trees. You ‘allow’ them to just be trees.  You just understand the unspoken explanation for why they all appear so different. You understand that maybe the smaller trees didn’t get enough sunlight and that’s why it turned out the way it did.  You don’t get all emotional about it.  You just allow it, you still appreciate the trees.
However, the minute we get near humans, we lose all that understanding and acceptance.  We are constantly remarking, “you’re too this, or I’m too that”, and our judging mind comes into play and we can’t just allow a human to be human, like the trees.  Maybe we should start looking at people as trees and just appreciate them the way they are.
Every human tree should have a vision for their own life and actually believe in your own ability to ‘figure things out’. We should each use the peaceful principle that trees represent and without self affliction, attempt to have fun making our dreams happen, no matter how little sunlight you have to grow in.  We should adapt the trees patience to grow but always remain persistent.  Most importantly though, we should respect the other ‘trees’ around us as we are all growing, we are all playing the same game of life. 
So how about today we try something different  and put on our rose tinted glasses and imagination caps and see people as trees rather than humans and appreciate them for all the amazing things they are and not any of the things they are not.  Just allow the ‘trees’ to be ‘trees’ and love them for their beauty. Maybe just for today we should look at our own reflection in the mirror and see ourselves as trees, appreciating and loving our leafy, twiggy or just plain tree bark beauty, allowing ourselves to be the tree we were planted to be. Maybe even take it one step further and hug a ‘tree’...go on then... wrap your twigs around a ‘tree’, or even around yourself and just be a happily accepted ‘tree’.
And in parting, remember this, we don’t see things the way they are - we see things the way we are.

Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)

Bohemian B

Thursday, 4 September 2014

Bohemian B’s Beat
Have a Kit-Kat…

What with working full time, running a dance school (however small, still jam packed with fun), being a mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a glorified events planner (for the dance school), performer and never forget… mommy to the four legged kids, free time is an illusion found on comedy central.
   Free time? Nope, I don’t think I am familiar with concept at all.  Now, any mom would know that where kids are concerned, there is always SOMETHING on the program, right now for me, it is one of the biggest happenings in a teenage girls life, that terrifying (and exuberantly expensive I might add) Matric Farewell (has rendered me as wobbly as a jelly fish!). Anyone who knows me and is familiar with my daughter knows that she is a complete ‘mini-me’ - dramatic, eccentric, adventurous and ever so theatrical. This does not make any task a walk in the park I assure you and what makes it even more traumatic is that I know I am exactly the same…  Lucky for me though I have the support of my partner (who is superman by the way… he must be as only a super hero would survive living with my numerous personalities and me!). I also have a best friend who is not only a courtier and a master in the art of creative and ‘mind blowing’ creations, but also the best dose of inspiration and encouragement a friend could wish for.  What does NOT help me in anyway, is that it is apparent that I look like an ATM machine. 
   Anyway, I’m wondering away from the topic again, let me get back to that mysterious illusion called free time.  Just today I was sitting in my miracle working friends’ studio discussing the little princesses elaborate matric farewell attire (well him discussing and me whining). I mentioned to him about my ongoing battle with the ominous time factor and he asked me a very simple question, he asked “but why?” shaking his head in realization that he would need to lay it out for me in Bohemian B’s kind of layman terms, he continued to say that, no matter how much I did or not get done today, tomorrow would still come. He said, “Do what you can today and what you can’t finish today can be done tomorrow.  Tomorrow you handle what you can and what doesn't get done tomorrow will patiently wait for the next day… and so forth.  Obviously, me being me, always having an answer (or argument) for everything, I simply (or maybe a bit more dramatically) replied, “NO! This HAS to be done today!”  His eyes got as big as dinner plates as he asked in horror, “Why? Who is going to die due to your lack of getting to everything?”  Okay, this made me stop, pay attention and even think about what he said. 
   And there you have it wonder-woman.  If it is detrimental to your job, a life or death situation with your family or at home or a horrendously huge national disaster threat which could destroy the plant, then do it today.  If not, tomorrow is another day.  By managing your precious time and dealing with one ‘train-smash’ at a time and ultimately learning to loosen the reigns a bit could benefit you in more ways than you can imagine.  For one, you will enter the day of tomorrow with one less grey hair, one less wrinkle and much more enthusiasm, resulting in efficiency. So now, how about that cup of stress-free tea, undisturbed by your self-inflicted business. 
Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)
Bohemian B

Thursday, 28 August 2014

Bohemian B’s Beat
Living deliberately, Fate versus fact

Fate vs fact, an on-going dilemma in the history of... well for as long as I can remember.  “I can’t believe that happened to me”.... “Why” and “How” are probably the most commonly asked questions and normally asked with a sense of surprised shock and horror, when very often (no, I never said always) it’s partly, if not completely, our own doing. 
   I do not necessarily believe in coincidence, I believe in living with deliberation and choice.  We were all blessed with the gift of free will and that includes choices.  Sometimes (and I talk from experience) we have a ‘gut’ feeling that we shouldn’t do a particular thing, say a certain thing, go to a specific place, but what do we do? We ignore the little voice and do it anyway.  And oh the horror when things go pear shaped and turn bad and all the while that little voice is looking you up and down smugly and with distain mumbling, “I told you so”. So why do we do it? Are we all natural born dare devils? Or maybe we think we are superior to ‘the voice’ (I’m a famous one for always thinking that I know best… if you don’t believe me just ask, I’ll tell you!).
   But for whatever reason we do what we do, we all have to eventually pay the price for our careless, callous or downright stupid choices.  Payday may not be immediately, but eventually it’ll come knocking on the door demanding its levy. (And trust me, I owe so much to the ‘simply silly or subtly stupid choices levy fund’, that   I’m considered a registered employee there already)
   I am also a firm believer in making mistakes, purely for three simple reasons: 1) Because I make so many of them; 2) Because I am human (referring back to last week’s BBB) and 3) (and this is a ‘biggy’) It’s an opportunity to learn from said mistake and grow from it.  However, a mistake is just that, a mistake.  When it happens the first time it is a mistake, if it happens again it becomes a choice.  It is not coincidental that you end up in the same situation over and over again, it is your choice to continually revert back to square one. 
   I recently read some good advice, “Every moment is a choice.  Every thought, word and deed is creating your future and for that matter the future of the one’s closest to you.  Choose wisely and positively.  Banish fear from your choosing capabilities. Never be afraid to do what is right, especially if the well-being of another person is at stake. Always live with deliberation and make your choices wisely and take the utmost care to avoid the knock on the door when it is time to ‘pay up for your ‘coincidences’.”
   I choose to make a conscious decision to put every effort into making good choices and to avoid coincidence and the consequences at all cost… I will also try to remember that I am classified a human and will not beat myself up for my unintentional mistakes.  “Learn from yesterday. Live for today. Hope for tomorrow.”
Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)
Bohemian B

Saturday, 23 August 2014

Bohemian B’s Beat

Teleporting pink unicorns

Potholes, public transport, out-of-order traffic lights, reckless drivers, traffic obstructions and the list goes on and on and on.  When you see these words it should evoke feelings of outrage, disbelief and all round negativity (If you reside in Ermelo of course and if you are an earthling).
I was driving in town recently, swerving from one side of the road to the other in an ongoing attempt of dodging the abundance of potholes (some so big that I fear if I fall in there I will either 1. have to wait for a search party to come looking for me or 2. face the possibility of falling right through to the other side of the earth ball...) reminding me of a 4 x 4 trail.  I was just at the point of losing my cool completely as my morning was one where all of the above mentioned ‘hazards’ played a significant role in stripping me of my ‘pink fluffy unicorns, dancing on a rainbow’, happy mood. I have to swerve again to dodge yet another one and swerved myself into a whole new dimension apparently as I got to thinking, what if I was given the task of writing about something horrendously negative using only ‘happy thought’, transforming the entire story line.  So, instead of losing my mind completely (with smoke bellowing from my ears and the whole shebang, like the funny looking little men in cartoons) I proceeded to ‘re-write’ this ongoing squeal of a negative soapy and try fill it with positivity.
 “What if potholes are not potholes at all, but rather portholes to another world?  What if public transport is not in fact public transport at all but rather a teleportation method?What if faulty traffic lights are not faulty but rather just communication devices which are experiencing jammedsignals, as other worlds try (in vain) to contact us? 
This answers a lot of questions actually.  Have you ever met someone and wondered if they are even human at all? (Oh wait…….I’m sure you all think that when you meet me!)   Well to be honest, no I am not human at all, I am super human! (I have reached this conclusion judged by my own standards, so please, don’t get your knickers in a knot)  I think maybe I ‘arrived’ here by means of a teleportation device, through a porthole after the communication signal was received…….. This is the only explanation I can think of which makes any sense (in my world anyway).  Why else would teleportation devise’s, who misunderstand the communication signals, continuously seem to have the urgency to get up close and personal with me by means of swerving as close to me as they possibly can or horridly cut in front of me, forcing me to slam on brakes and notice them?
 Why else would I be surrounded by so many portholes which seem to manifest themselves right in front of me all the time and everywhere?  Could it be that the bubble blowing, pink fluffy unicorns from Rainbow world are missing their Bohemian……? I can only imagine how bored they must be without me……
   Alright, I’ll stop, what I am actually trying to say here is, instead of allowing these very annoying, joy stealing, ‘in your face’ obstacles to ruin your day, rather transform these frustrations into something bazar and hilarious.  This could help turn your frown upside down. Make up your own story and the plus point is, you can re-write it as many times as you need, it’s your story after all, just like your life…..
Well that’s it for today, dreaming up these kind of candy floss thoughts render me hungry……. (For pink smarties)
Glitter greetings (and all things shiny)

Bohemian B

Sunday, 17 August 2014

Native American Zodiac Sign Meanings:
Otter: Jan 20 - Feb 18
A little quirky, and unorthodox, the Otter is a hard one to figure sometimes. Perceived as unconventional, the Otter methods aren't the first ones chosen to get the job done. This is a big mistake on the part of others - because although unconventional, the Otter's methods are usually quite effective. Yes, the Otter has unusual way of looking at things, but he/she is equipped with a brilliant imagination and intelligence, allowing him/her an edge over every one else. Often very perceptive and intuitive, the Otter makes a very good friend, and can be very attentive. In a nurturing environment the Otter is sensitive, sympathetic, courageous, and honest. Left to his/her own devices, the Otter can be unscrupulous, lewd, rebellious, and isolated.
Wolf: Feb 19 - Mar 20
Deeply emotional, and wholly passionate, the Wolf is the lover of the zodiac in both the physical and philosophical sense of the word. The Wolf understands that all we need is love, and is fully capable of providing it. Juxtaposed with his/her fierce independence - this Native American animal symbol is a bit of a contradiction in terms. Needing his/her freedom, yet still being quite gentle and compassionate - we get the picture of the "lone wolf" with this sign. In a nurturing environment the Wolf is intensely passionate, generous, deeply affectionate, and gentle. Left to his/her own devices the Wolf can become impractical, recalcitrant, obsessive, and vindictive.
Falcon: Mar 21 - Apr 19
A natural born leader, the Falcon can always be looked upon for clear judgment in sticky situations. Furthermore, the characteristics for this Native American animal symbol never wastes time, rather he/she strikes while the iron is hot, and takes action in what must be done. Ever persistent, and always taking the initiative, the Falcon is a gem of a personality to have for projects or team sports. The Falcon can be a little on the conceited side - but he/she is usually right in his/her opinions - so a little arrogance is understood. In a supportive environmental the Falcon "soars" in his/her ability to maintain passion and fire in relationships, and always remaining compassionate. Left to his/her own devices, the Falcon can be vain, rude, intolerant, impatient, and over-sensitive.
Beaver: Apr 20 - May 20
Take charge, adapt, overcome - this is the Beaver motto. Mostly business, the Beaver is gets the job at hand done with maximum efficiency and aplomb. Strategic, and cunning the Beaver is a force to be reckoned with in matters of business and combat. One might also think twice about engaging the Beaver in a match of wits - as his/her mental acuity is razor sharp. The Beaver has everything going for him/her - however tendencies toward "my way or the highway" get them in trouble. Yes, they are usually right, but the bearer of this Native American animal symbol may need to work on tact. In a nurturing environment the Beaver can be compassionate, generous, helpful, and loyal. Left to his/her own devices the Beaver can be nervous, cowardly, possessive, arrogant, and over-demanding.
Deer Native American Animal Symbol Deer: May 21 - Jun 20
This Native American animal symbol is the muse of the zodiac. The Deer is inspiring lively and quick-witted. With a tailor-made humor, the Deer has a tendency to get a laugh out of anyone. Excellent ability for vocalizing, the Deer is a consummate conversationalist. This combined with his/her natural intelligence make the Deer a must-have guest at dinner parties. Always aware of his/her surroundings, and even more aware of his/her appearance, the Deer can be a bit self-involved. However, the Deer's narcissism is overlooked because of his/her congeniality and affability. In a supportive environment the Deer's natural liveliness and sparkly personality radiate even more. He/she is an inspiring force in any nurturing relationship. Left to his/her own devices the Deer can be selfish, moody, impatient, lazy, and two-faced.
Woodpecker: Jun 21 - Jul 21
Woodpeckers are usually the most nurturing of all the Native American animal symbols. The consummate listener, totally empathic and understanding, the Woodpecker is the one to have on your side when you need support. Of course, they make wonderful parents, and equally wonderful friends and partners. Another proverbial feather in the Woodpeckers cap is the tendency to be naturally frugal, resourceful, and organized. In a nurturing environment the Woodpecker is of course caring, devoted, and very romantic. Left to his/her own devices the Woodpecker can be possessive, angry, jealous, and spiteful.
Salmon: Jul 22 - Aug 21
Electric, focused, intuitive, and wholly creative, the Salmon is a real live-wire. His/her energy is palpable. A natural motivator, the Salmon's confidence and enthusiasm is easily infectious. Soon, everybody is onboard with the Salmon - even if the idea seems too hair-brained to work. Generous, intelligent, and intuitive, it's no wonder why the Salmon has no shortage of friends. This Native American animal symbol expresses a need for purpose and goals, and has no trouble finding volunteers for his/her personal crusades. In a supportive environment, the Salmon is stable, calm, sensual, and giving. Left to his/her own devices, those that bear this Native American animal symbol can be egotistical, vulgar, and intolerant of others.
Bear: Aug 22 - Sep 21
Pragmatic, and methodical the Bear is the one to call when a steady hand is needed. The Bear's practicality and level-headedness makes him/her an excellent business partner. Usually the voice of reason in most scenarios, the Bear is a good balance for Owls. The Bear is also gifted with an enormous heart, and a penchant for generosity. However, one might not know it as the Bear tends to be very modest, and a bit shy. In a loving environment this Native American animal symbol showers love and generosity in return. Further, the Bear has a capacity for patience and temperance, which makes him/her excellent teachers and mentors. Left to his/her own devices the bear can be skeptical, sloth, small-minded and reclusive.
Raven: Sep 22 - Oct 22
Highly enthusiastic, and a natural entrepreneur, the Crow is quite a charmer. But he/she doesn't have to work at being charming - it comes easily. Everyone recognizes the Crow's easy energy, and everyone turns to the Crow for his/her ideas and opinions. This is because the Crow is both idealistic and diplomatic and is quite ingenious. In nurturing environments this Native American animal symbol is easy-going, can be romantic, and soft-spoken. Further, the crow can be quite patient, and intuitive in relationships. Left to his/her own devices, the Crow can be demanding, inconsistent, vindictive, and abrasive.
Snake: Oct 23 - Nov 22
Most shamans are born under this Native American animal symbol. The Snake is a natural in all matters of spirit. Easily attuned to the ethereal realm the Snake makes an excellent spiritual leader. Also respected for his/her healing capacities, the Snake also excels in medical professions. The Snake's preoccupation with matters intangible often lead others to view them as mysterious, and sometimes frightening. True, the Snake can be secretive, and a bit dark - he/she is also quite sensitive, and caring. In a supportive relationship the cool Snake can be passionate, inspiring, humorous, and helpful. Left to his/her own devices, the Snake can be despondent, violent, and prone to abnormal mood swings.
Owl: Nov 23 - Dec 21
Changeable and mutable as the wind, the Owl is a tough one to pin down. Warm, natural, with an easy-going nature, the Owl is friend to the world. The bearer of this Native American animal symbol is notorious for engaging in life at full speed, and whole-hearted loves adventure. This can be to his/her detriment as the Owl can be reckless, careless, and thoughtless. Owls make great artists, teachers, and conservationists. However, due to his/her adaptability and versatility - the Owl would likely excel in any occupation. In a supportive, nurturing environment the Owl is sensitive, enthusiastic, and an attentive listener. Left to his/her own devices, the Owl can be excessive, overindulgent, bitter, and belligerent.
Goose: Dec 22 - Jan 19
If you want something done - give it to the Goose. Persevering, dogged, and ambitious to a fault, the Goose sets goals for accomplishment, and always obtains them. The goose is determined to succeed at all cost - not for the approval of other - but those with this Native American animal symbol competes with his/her own internal foe. Driven is the watchword for the Goose's dominating personality trait - which makes them excellent in business and competitive sports. When tempered with supportive, nurturing family and friends, the Goose excels in all things he/she attempts. In a loving environment the Goose can be very passionate, humorous, gregarious, and even sensual. However, lead to his/her own devises, the Goose may fall into obsessive or addictive behaviors that will inevitably be his/her demise.